Now you may be thinking what's with the title, am I correct? Well, lately
I've been thinking about articles, magazines and books that tell women how she
should be like through the man's perspective. And if you haven't noticed but
all these articles and magazines are owned by men with power who make a certain
image of women and so when others see those images they feel, in order to be
beautiful they must be seen as that person/ image in the eyes of men. It's
common to see women dive for attention from men; which is exactly why they
dress the way they dress, yes men don't tell ladies to dress provocative but in
order to gain attention if any, then they must. Whether a man admits to such
deeds or not, they are the reason as to why women try to be a certain way according to females. As for
being a gentleman myself I don't have many expectations from a lady, in fact
she doesn't have to dress where her body is revealing, but if she does, that's
her choice. Her judgment. I chose this topic because many girls blame men for the way they dress and behave within society, and I disagree. I think that any girl is capable to make her decisions, influenced by society or not, it's still her choice. She needs to decide whether or not what she is doing is right or wrong, if she is comfortable and if that's the image she wants of herself. Yet many girls say that they are forced to be the way they are otherwise they wouldn't be considered anything. That's absolutely false. As for being a male myself, yes I do judge a girl by what I see at first but as time goes on I am able to get pass her appearance and accept her for who she really is, and even if looks do matter in the beginning there is no reason to expose body parts that shouldn't be displayed within society. Now the controversy is, is it really a man's world or are women just making the wrong decisions?
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